Ep #41 “How to Transform Your Mindset toward Dating” with Connell Barrett
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About Connell Barrett
Connell Barrett is the founder and executive coach of Dating Transformation. His mission is to help men find their soulmate as their most authentic, confident self.
He is the author of the book, Dating Sucks, But You Don’t: The Modern Day Man’s Guide to Total Confidence, Romantic Connection, and Finding the Perfect Partner. Rejection. Ghosting. Not knowing how to talk to women. For many men, dating just sucks. But it doesn’t have to. There’s a simple, yet powerful, way to gain instant confidence and attract a great girlfriend: Be authentic.
Whether you want to confidently approach women, get quality matches on dating apps, or learn how to avoid the “friend zone”, Dating Sucks, but You Don’t is your step-by-step blueprint for landing your soul mate.
Quotes
“The man, who gets in the friends zone, is the man who does not know how to express himself in an honest authentic way.”
"Radical authenticity is getting in touch with genuine, real value you have to offer a woman."
"In dating, the goal is not to impress, it is to express. Express your real self, how ever that may be…the goal of a first date is to make her smile."
“Write down 25 specific reasons why you are a great choice for women.”
Highlights
10:30 - Growing in confidence during your 20s
13:00 - 25 Reasons why you bring value to a woman
16:20 - Presenting Your Authentic Self
20:10 - "What if it is not rejection?"
22:15 - Who the book is written for
31:40 - The goal of the first date is NOT to impress
37:10 - Big lessons from bad first dates
42:00 - Rom-Com stereotypes and lack of reality
Questions to Ask Yourself
How am I growing in confidence in who I am and what I have to offer the opposite sex?
What are the unique things about me that I love and think others would love as well?
How do I fight the urge to constantly impress others and present true self everyday?
How am I positioning myself to love and be loved in a romantic/meaningful relationship?
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Transcript of Episode #41
